Being in spiritual life for decades, I have come to the stunning realization that in spiritual societies there are a disproportionate number of practitioners who have mental health issues. Surprisingly and unfortunately, these issues go unnoticed and therefore untreated. One of the reasons for this is that people in the spiritual circles lack knowledge about mental health issues, and the second is that these mental health issues are many times mistaken for spiritual achievement. One of the common mental health issues, which I have personally witnessed in my own institute and ashram, as well as in my Guru’s ashram, is delusional disorder. The tricky thing about delusional disorder is that people who have it may be highly functional in all areas of life except in the area in which they have the delusion, so this can go unnoticed for years. Because tamas has some similarity with sattva, a highly dysfunctional tamasic person can be mistaken for a supreme transcendentalist, called avadhuta. I have seen examples of confusing a highly delusional person for a great realized spiritualist in Vrindavan. Therefore, I thought it will be helpful for the spiritual community to have knowledge about this fact so that the problem can be recognized and addressed. The following article is written in collaboration with Jessica Richmond (Joshika Devi Dasi), a Licensed Mental Health Counselor from America who has many years of experience in various mental health hospitals dealing with patients with a variety of mental disorders, including delusions. She now spends half of the year in Vrindavan at my ashram working with the local devotee community and devotees internationally. She is also teaching psychotherapists how to apply Vedic Psychology to get to the root cause of mental health imbalances.
A CLINICAL EXAMPLE OF DELUSIONAL DISORDER
To give an idea about the mind of a person who has delusional disorder, here is a conversation from her practice:
“I know my daughter is going to come back home for her 30th birthday. She wouldn’t be so cruel to leave me like that and not come back,” Rhonda said, her glassy pale blue eyes gazing past me into the distance, as if she was looking at her sweet daughter.
“Where is your daughter now, Rhonda?” I said, trying to get her to admit to the reality, which is that her 29-year old most beloved daughter Heidi, died tragically 6 months ago after years of a valiant battle with ovarian cancer.
“She is in heaven,” Rhonda gazed at me and smiled confidently, then added, “but Heidi is a good girl and she will be back for her birthday this May. It is only 42 days away, and she will be here. I just know it.”
I tried another angle to snap her out of it… “So, where is Heidi’s body right now, Rhonda?”
She smiled pleasantly, “Heidi’s body is on my mantle at home in an urn.”
“So you are saying that Heidi’s body is in ashes, is that correct?”
“Yes,” Rhonda agreed, nodding her head assuredly, still smiling.
Good, I thought to myself, at least she agrees that her daughter’s body is in ashes; now I have a foundation as a starting point to poke a hole in her delusion. “So, Rhonda, let me ask you one question, if I may?”
“Sure, anything,” she calmly replied.
“Okay, so if Heidi is in heaven, and her body is in ashes on your mantle, how is she going to come down from heaven and get back into that body, which has been burned into ashes? I don’t understand. Please explain how this will happen?”
Rhonda maintained that same superficial look on her face – that plastic smile that was covering up her immense pain, and peacefully said, “My baby will be here. I’m throwing a big 30th birthday party for her. She will wear all pink to her party, her favorite color. She is such a kind person, with such a big heart. She will never let me, her best friend, down. She is very reliable, she will come. Just wait until May 21st. You will see what I mean.”
“Rhonda, I still can’t imagine how Heidi could come to her birthday party. This isn’t making any sense. It sounds like you have thought about what will happen if Heidi comes, but what will happen if Heidi doesn’t come? Have you at least considered that option? Are you prepared to deal with the let down you will feel if Heidi does not show for this birthday party you are throwing for her?”
Rhonda smiled the same smile as when she walked in the door, and repeated her mantra, unflustered. “Heidi will show. Of course she will show to her own birthday party.
It was at this point that I realized that no matter what I said, no matter what reasoning I used, Rhonda was completely fixed in her delusion. Her thoughts would not budge. These thoughts were protecting her from feeling the immense pain of the loss of her daughter; pain that was so overwhelming that her mind created some other reality.
This may seem far out of the realm of many reader’s experiences (as most devotees don’t spend much time working with clients at mental hospitals), but delusion is a disorder among devotees; unfortunately one that goes undiagnosed all too often. In the case of Rhonda, it turned out to be pretty clear-cut in getting her help. I phoned Rhonda’s friend, explained Rhonda’s problem, and the friend brought her to the psychiatrist and got her on the proper medication. When Rhonda returned to see me next time, her daughter’s birthday had passed, she was properly medicated, and she was out of the delusion. We spent a few months processing her deeply cutting and desperate pain over the loss of her darling daughter Heidi, and her thoughts were eventually normalized.
DEVOTEES IN DELUSION
Unfortunately, working with devotees afflicted with delusional disorder is not so easy. In fact, working with actively suicidal and homicidal devotees has proved to be easier than working with devotees in delusion. Delusion is difficult to break through. It is like an iron-clad wall of beliefs that no psychotherapist, or even Guru’s direct orders can penetrate. You may laugh or scowl in disbelief, but we are only reporting what we are seeing. Until now, you may have perceived that someone’s lack of progress has been due to a big ego, or some offenses made in the past, or stubborn or narcissistic personality traits; but possibly there is more to their story. A person may actually be in a delusional state of mind and not know it.
Delusion is defined by The American Psychiatric Association DSM-5 as, “fixed beliefs that are not amenable to change in the light of conflicting evidence,” (APA, p.87). The beliefs are irrational. According to Bhagavad Gita, the root cause of delusion is the influence of rajas and tamas on buddhi. In the 18th chapter, Krishna describes three divisions of buddhi:
pravṛttiṁ ca nivṛttiṁ ca kāryākārye bhayābhaye
bandhaṁ mokṣaṁ ca yā vetti buddhiḥ sā pārtha sāttvika
O Arjuna, that intelligence which discriminates between the paths of action and renunciation, between what is to be done and what is to be avoided, between that which results in fear and that which causes fearlessness, and between bondage and liberation, is sāttvika. (18.30)
yayā dharmam adharmaṁ ca kāryaṁ cākāryam eva ca
ayathāvat prajānāti buddhiḥ sā pārtha rājasī
O Arjuna, that intelligence by which one comprehends inaccurately what is righteousness (dharma) and unrighteousness (adharma) and what ought to be done and what is forbidden, is rājasika. (18.31)
[What it means is that buddhi is unable to discriminate between right and wrong, and rather presents the truth in a distorted manner]
adharmaṁ dharmam iti yā manyate tamasāvṛtā
sarvārthān viparītāṁś ca buddhiḥ sā pārtha tāmasī
That intelligence which, being covered by ignorance, conceives unrighteousness as righteousness and all things as contrary to their real nature, is tāmasika, O Arjuna. (18.32)
[In other words, such an intelligence presents the reality just the opposite of what it is].
The person who is in delusion does not see things as they are because his or her intelligence is influenced by rajas or tamas, or both; and it is the intelligence by which a person comprehends things around them. Depending on the intensity of the influence of rajas and tamas, one has corresponding intensity of delusion. According to the intensity of the influence of rajas and tamas, the delusional disorder can be classified into three categories:
If one’s intelligence is polluted, then it is almost impossible to break through and make the person understand what reality actually is. We perceive things with our senses which send information to the mind, but it is the buddhi which makes us comprehend the perception. It is at this level of comprehension that delusion occurs. Every human being is prone to delusion because the buddhi of a common person is always under the influence of the gunas, which keep on changing. But a person who has a delusional disorder is different because he or she has a chronic and constant misconception that is impenetrable.
There are numerous types of delusions that one can have, and they must persist for at least one month in order for it to qualify as a delusional disorder. Detailed below are the six delusional disorders that we have either seen directly in devotees, or have heard stories about devotees in ashram life. A common characteristic of individuals with delusional disorder is the apparent normality of their behavior and appearance when their delusional ideas are not being discussed or acted upon (APA, p.93).
(American Psychiatric Association DSM-5, p.90)
It is possible that a person has more than one of these types of delusions. The general understanding in the devotee community is that just by performing one’s sadhana, one will be cured from one’s disorders. There is some truth to this, and one can find scriptural statements in support of it since bhakti is the panacea for every problem. However, just as when we have some physical ailment we are advised to take help of a qualified physician; when one has a mental disorder one should take psychiatric help. Indeed, taking psychiatric help is more necessary in the case of mental disorders because they are very subtle in comparison to physical problems.
In the follow-up articles we will analyze and give examples of the six types of delusion from the devotee community.
I have observed two paradoxes about love:
1. If you love someone intensely that person becomes afraid of losing his/her independence.
2. If you see someone in intense love you become jealous, although you may not express it openly.
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